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Benefits of Open Adoption
Our experience with open adoption has revealed the following benefits for all members of the adoption circle:
Open adoption benefits for the child:
- A clearer sense of identity
- Understanding they are loved by their birth family and why they chose adoption
- Ready access to information about their medical and social history
- Access to biological siblings, if there are any
Open adoption benefits for adoptive parents:
- Knowledge that birthparents chose adoption freely and willingly
- A feeling of entitlement and being personally entrusted to raise the child
- Dissolution of fantasies about birthparents or fear of the unknown
- Greater ability to answer the child's questions about his or her origins
- Ongoing access to birthhparents' medical and social histories
Open adoption benefits for birthparents:
- An opportunity to personally answer their birth child's questions about his or her adoption
- Reassurance of knowing the child is safe and thriving.
In the video on this page, Emily, The Cradle's Match Specialist, discusses a match meeting: I’m Emily Maxwell. I’m the match specialist here at the Cradle, and I work with adoptive parents and birth parents when they meet each other for the first time in a match meeting—just kind of like a facilitated blind date. Birth parents review profiles of adoptive parents, and they decide which family that they’d like to meet in a match meeting.
A Match Meeting
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