Many things have changed in adoptions over the years, and Illinois now allows contact between birth parents and adult adopted people as long as both have given their consent. 

Many people choose to sign The Cradle’s Mutual Consent Registry.  The registry, which was created in 1985, allows people to let us know that they are open to having contact with a birth relative.  Cradle adopted people may register at age 21.  Cradle adoptive parents of a child under age 21 may register on behalf of their child.  Cradle birth parents may register at any time following the adoption.  Under certain conditions, relatives of birth parents and descendants of adopted people may also register.  Once the forms are submitted for The Cradle’s Registry, they remain on record indefinitely.  If there is a match, at the time of registering or in the future, The Cradle will contact each person and assist in exchanging information based on preauthorization from each individual involved.  If direct contact is not desired, The Cradle can facilitate an exchange of letters, photos, information, telephone calls, or a meeting. 

PLEASE NOTE: It is important when participating in the registry to keep The Cradle updated on any changes to your name, phone number, email or mailing address.