In some cases we are not able to make a match through the Registry.  When that is the case, many of our clients choose to move ahead with a Search for their birth relative.  In conducting a Search, The Cradle uses information given at the time of the adoption and any information obtained thereafter.  A variety of Search techniques are used depending on the information available.  Searches through The Cradle are conducted in an ethical and respectful manner, and the confidentiality of all parties is maintained.  It is important to consider the many possible outcomes when requesting a search.  Reaching Out services are for Cradle families only.

Basic Search
All searches begin with a Basic Search.  A Basic Search utilizes the information available in the record and Internet search engines, to try to locate a current address for your birth relative.  If a possible address is located, an outreach letter is sent to your birth relative.  When a current address is not located through a Basic Search, people often choose to upgrade to an Extended Search.

Extended Search
An Extended Search goes beyond the information available in the record and the use of the Internet.  Often this includes extensive research of demographic, historical, archival, and genealogical records, both public and private.  Once a possible address is located, an outreach letter is sent to your birth relative. 

The time it takes to search for a birth relative can vary from a few weeks to more than a year.  Although we are usually able to locate the person we are seeking, we cannot guarantee that a Search will be successful.  The majority of adopted people and birth parents we locate are open to contact; some are not.  If you request a Search, be prepared for the possibility that your birth parent or child may choose not to have contact.  Additionally, if we discover your birth relative is deceased, we then look for the closest next of kin.  If your birth relative is open to contact, The Cradle can act as intermediary exchanging letters and photos until both parties feel comfortable with direct contact.  The Search fee, regardless of the outcome, is non-refundable. Counseling/consultation as needed is included in the Search fee to help with thoughts, feelings, and emotions that may result from this process.

Reconnection
From time to time, birth relatives who were in contact through an open or semi-open adoption, or a successful Search facilitated by The Cradle, lose touch.  One avenue of trying to reconnect is for The Cradle to attempt to locate a current address through the use of Internet search engines and then send an outreach letter to your birth relative, or your child’s birth relative.  To request this service you must be a part of The Cradle’s Mutual Consent Registry.  Please call us for additional information and to see if this service applicable for you.