Hi, we’re Matt & John and we’re excited to show you a glimpse into our lives! We’ve been dreaming about growing our family for years and are ready for all the adventures that parenthood will bring. We want to show you a bit of our journey together and all of the love we have to give a child.

We know there must be a million things going through your mind right now and we want to show you that your child will grow up surrounded by a loving family, countless adventures, and limitless laughter.

About Us

Our story began at a Halloween party in 2005. Matt was dressed as a giant cardboard text message and John was dressed as a polar bear. Aside from our ridiculous costumes, what really stands out from that night was the amount of laughter we shared as we discovered our mutual love of Taco Bell, Harry Potter, and cheesy movies. Our first official date was the very next weekend and ended up being the start of a journey filled with grad school, traveling and learning how to build a home together through compromise and partnership. Nine years later, Matt finally got up the courage to ask John to marry him and we said “I Do” in November 2014 surrounded by our closest friends and family as John’s sister performed the ceremony.
 

Our relationship is built on communication, trust, and laughter that has seen us through good and tough times. John makes sure to push Matt outside of his comfort zone, traveling to new countries and trying new foods, while Matt helps John stop and smell the roses through each new experience and appreciate the small moments like a beautiful mountain view or a freshly baked cookie. We feel this balance will come through in our parenting styles with John encouraging our child to explore the world around them while Matt will make sure to live in the moment and appreciate every day. Our life together has been leading up to this moment where we can welcome a new member to our little family and share the next adventure.

A little bit about John

I grew up as the middle child of seven kids in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. With that many kids, my childhood was very loud and chaotic but always filled with fun. I was a curious child with an overactive imagination that led me to explore as much as possible through books, movies, and biking around the neighborhood. As an adult, I’m lucky enough to work in a job where I get to use this passion to create new candy all over the world! It’s hard not to smile while testing out ideas like flavor changing gum and spicy gummies in places like China and Germany. Even though I spent years studying business to be where I am today, I’m still just a big kid at heart and love a relaxing Saturday afternoon playing video games (especially Mario Kart) and watching the latest Marvel movie. I tend to be the planner in our relationship and in my spare time you’ll find me searching online for vacation ideas and new restaurants, and I can’t wait to start using my planning skills for kids’ birthday parties. I am excited to show our child the world, whether through trying out a new meal, diving into a Harry Potter book, or by taking them to a far-away land.

A little bit about Matt

I grew up in a tiny town in northern Minnesota with a population of 500 people, no stoplights and one gas station. While there wasn’t a mall or movie theater, I was surrounded by forests and lakes and loved water skiing through the summer and spending the winters building giant snow forts. I moved to Chicago after college for medical school and residency to become an ER doctor, and after years oftraining, I’ve learned how to handle anything life throws at me. After working in ER’s across the Chicago suburbs, I now work in healthcare administration, creating solutions to help improve healthcare for all patients. In my spare time you’ll find me experimenting in the kitchen with giant bowls of frosting, towering cakes, and buttery pie crusts while I explore my favorite hobby of baking. I love being able to mix my creativity into a birthday cake and pour my love into a box of holiday cookies and I can’t wait to teach our children how to use their own imagination to make anything their mind dreams up.

Our Family

We have a very big family with 32 immediate family members (and counting!) that are our biggest support system. Our eleven nieces and nephews can’t wait to have another cousin to play with and always ask when Uncle John and Uncle Matt are going to bring a new baby home. With most of our extended family just a few hours away in Milwaukee, we’re lucky to get to spend a lot of time with them, whether it is for small events like movie nights or big family vacations to the beach. Being together for so long, we’ve developed traditions within our family that we can’t wait to share with our new child, most importantly, the FAMOUS annual family Olympics. Each summer we spend a weekend divided into two teams for a massive competition filled with three-legged races, watermelon eating contests, and water balloon fights to see who wins the giant candy trophy. John is obviously the planner and referee while Matt usually ends up being the on-site doctor for sprained ankles and bug bites. These weekends have created some of our most cherished family memories and we can’t wait to develop even more traditions with our new family to celebrate all the pieces of our child’s identity.

Our Future

We’ve spent the past few years daydreaming and planning on how to prepare for the next chapter in our lives. Our biggest hope is for our child to grow up understanding and loving their own story. We are committed to supporting our child as they reach for their dreams through all the ups and downs. We can’t wait to bake with them, introduce them to Spiderman, teach them how to catch a water balloon without breaking, and how different cultures are beautiful.

Open adoption is important to us and we’ve taken the past few months to really learn and understand the benefits for the child, the birth parents, and the adoptive parents. While we desire to have regular communication and updates, we are ready to be flexible based on your needs. We hope that you will agree in some way to share this journey with us so that our child knows that they are surrounded by
love.

Thank You

Thank you for taking the time to read a little bit about us. Hopefully you can feel the love we have for each other and that we have to give to a child. Please let us know if there is anything else you would like to know, and we wish you all the best, no matter what you decide.

 

Fun facts

John
  • Has seen every Marvel movie ever made at least three times (Thor Ragnarok is my current favorite)
  • Can beat almost anyone in Mario Kart (Matt comes in a close second)
  • Had my childhood dream job of managing Skittles
  • Traveled to 10 countries last year alone (China was my favorite)!
  • Godfather to three kids all who love my access to free candy
  • Lived in Dublin, Ireland and Milan, Italy in the past
  • My most embarrassing job was touring Wisconsin as a cow mascot
  • Have run and survived two marathons
Matt
  • Invited to audition for two tv baking shows (still waiting for the call back)
  • Ran the 2018 Chicago marathon and almost beat John
  • Personal on call doctor for friends and family
  • Certified scuba diver and have scuba dived with sharks on the Great Barrier Reef
  • Have successfully removed a Barbie shoe from a toddler’s nose
  • Got my snowmobile driver’s license at 12
  • Makes world famous cinnamon rolls for Christmas morning

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